Looking for an accepting, progressive, and experienced coach to helping you discover what you want, and take powerful, effective, and concrete steps towards those goals?

You’ve come to the right place.

Are you:

  • Feeling trapped in your relationship, and want to know how to successfully open it up?
  • Terrified of proposing an open relationship to your significant other?
  • Curious about the world of ethical non-monogamy, but not sure how to get started?
  • Struggling to find the right people to help you fulfill your desires?
  • Struggling with your open relationship?

You’ve come to the right place.

Society conditions us to believe that there is only one path to fulfillment. Do you believe that to be true, or are you the type to question the norms? If you have that nagging feeling that there must be a better way, you’re not alone: countless people who were once tied to the traditional path have made the conscious, purposeful choice to break away from traditional values, and forge a life that aligns with their values. There is nothing more fulfilling than experiencing that alignment between what you believe and how you live.

I welcome and embrace people of all gender identities, all sexual orientations, and all relationship styles. If you are looking for a coach who will completely accept you for considering alternatives to traditional life choices…

You’ve come to the right place.


The International Coach Federation defines coaching as partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential, which is particularly important in today’s uncertain and complex environment. Coaches honor the client as the expert in his or her life and work and believe every client is creative, resourceful and whole. Standing on this foundation, the coach’s responsibility is to:

  • Discover, clarify, and align with what the client wants to achieve
  • Encourage client self-discovery
  • Elicit client-generated solutions and strategies
  • Hold the client responsible and accountable

This process helps clients dramatically improve their outlook on work and life, while improving their leadership skills and unlocking their potential.


Your coach is friendly, kind, and empathetic, with a wide variety of life experiences that make him uniquely qualified to work with people who are open to non-traditional life choices. Here are some key facts about your coach:

  • Part of a long-term relationship for almost 20 years.
  • This relationship was monogamous for the first 12 years, at which point it was successfully transitioned to an open, polyamorous relationship.
  • Your coach and his partner have two school-aged children, so he is experienced with topics around parenting in non-traditional settings.
  • Since opening up their relationship, your coach and his partner have had a variety of relationships with others, that ranged from casual to very serious, and from short to long-term.
  • In addition to polyamory, your coach has experience with other streams of open relationships, including swinging.
  • Your coach is formally trained, having taken a rigorous, year-long training program.
  • Your coach has many years of coaching experience, both in a corporate and personal context.


The areas you want to focus on with your coach are completely up to you. Here are some common places to start:

  • Opening up a monogamous relationship
  • Navigating challenges with an open or polyamorous relationship
  • Introducing a new partner into an existing open relationship
  • Overcoming jealousy
  • Polyamory and raising a family
  • Negotiating rules and boundaries
  • Talking about your non-traditional relationship choices with your children
  • Guiding your children around talking about your relationship(s) to others, and dealing with stigma
  • Introducing your children to new partners, and handling questions and issues


Start with a free 30-minute discussion with your coach, to get to know each other, and explore areas of your life we may focus on together. Ongoing coaching is available by phone, Skype, in person (depending on your location), and sessions may be for you individually, or for couples or groups. All coaching includes free, ongoing email correspondence between sessions, to allow us to continue to discuss and explore as frequently as you wish.

Fill out the form below to get started, and your coach will be in touch with you within 24-hours.